Top Ten Books I Read Before Blogging

Today’s Top Ten Tuesday is a Rewind: Choose any topic from the past that you didn’t get to participate in before. I had a couple years of only on-and-off blogging, so I thought I’d choose a post from that time. Back in April 2013, the featured topic was our top ten books read pre-blogging. Awesome topic! While I’ve read many wonderful books since I began blogging in Feb 2008, there were some great ones before then as well. Some have been reread and reviewed since then, and others will likely be reread and reviewed in future years! In no particular order:

  1. Dr. Jekyll and Mr Hyde – Robert Louis Stevenson: Perfect atmospheric bliss!
  2. Lolita – Vladimir Nabokov: Creepy and brilliant.
  3. The Old Man and the Sea – Ernest Hemingway: I think I’ve read this a dozen times now.
  4. The Bell Jar – Sylvia Plath: Gets better with each reread!
  5. Possession – AS Byatt: Picked up on a whim, became my favorite book…
  6. The Awakening – Kate Chopin: I read this at just the right moment to pierce my heart.
  7. The Painted Veil – William Somerset Maugham: Maugham = wonderful.
  8. Catch-22 – Joseph Heller: You’ve got flies in your eyes!
  9. Harry Potter – JK Rowling: Yes, all of them.
  10. Jane Eyre – Charlotte Bronte: I can’t believe I didn’t read this until I was almost 29.
  11. (Bonus novella) The Metamorphosis – Franz Kafka: Kafkaesque is one of my favorite words.

Hmm. Is it obvious I read mostly classics pre-blogging?

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Sunday Coffee – Another Adventure Begins

IMG_5681The decision has been made. We are indeed moving to Wisconsin. And soon. That’s the new part. Original talks circled on prepping our house to go on the market next spring, and moving up next summer, after the boys were out of school. Jason really thought it would be easier on the boys if we moved sooner rather than later, however, and sooner it will be. (The boys agree with this decision.) As in, the boys will go up to live with their grandparents for a bit at the tail-end of August, after my sister’s wedding but before school begins on September 1st. They’ll go to school for one week here, giving them a chance to say goodbye, and then we’ll drive them up to start on time there. Jason and I will stay here to finish prepping the house to sell.

How do I feel right now? STRESSED. And RUSHED. And WORRIED. I know this is the right decision, but I’m a careful, cautious planner, and fast changes tend to ramp up my anxiety. This is the sort of place where Jason thrives, though – he’s so much better at handling on-the-moment coordination – so I’m just putting my faith in him and doing what I can to keep myself together. This involves a lot of list-making (“All the Things that Must be Done Before We Move” etc) and a lot of personal projects (mostly crochet – prepping a supply of winter clothing and using up yarn, but mostly so I have something under my control to focus on…). I’m not sure how much I’ll be reading, blogging, etc in the upcoming months, but hey, given my past habits, who knows? Maybe I’ll start posting six times a week again, just to deal with the stress!

In any case, wish us luck. We have a few weeks left before the first lot of us head northward, and a few months left until we’re full Wisconsinites. Deadline is mid-October, max, when Morrigan’s sixteenth birthday rolls around. We’re not going to miss that!

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Bellweather Rhapsody, by Kate Racculia

bellweatherA dilapidated hotel. A November weekend. A pair of elfin-looking twins. A sociopath music director. A missing girl. A volatile conductor. An a cappella boy band. A legendary murder-suicide celebrating its fifteenth anniversary. A blizzard that traps everyone inside.

This book was awesome! I heard about Bellweather Rhapsody from Kristen, who had mixed feelings about the book. I put it on hold at my library, thinking I’d probably read a few pages and send it back. This was especially so after I saw on GoodReads so many mixed reviews, mostly positive, saying the book was interesting and/or weird but didn’t really come together at the end. But you know what? I have absolutely no idea what those GoodReads reviews were talking about! Everything most certainly came together, and in the best ways possible! Yeah, the book was strange, but in a good way. Everyone seems to have a different take on how to describe it, and here’s mine: this was like reading Edward Gorey, if Edward Gorey wrote novels instead of drawing graphic short stories. And personally, I adore Edward Gorey, and I loved the snot out of this book!

The writing was phenomenal. The point of view switched from person to person, section by section.** Every word felt deliberately atmospheric, without feeling like Racculia was trying too hard to get across a particular tone. I’ve read other books that read the same way: Lolita, Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde, Notes on a Scandal, We Have Always Lived in the Castle, etc. Most of them, however, are told from first person POV, and this was third person. That made for an absolutely fascinating dynamic, where the narrator isn’t really a part of the story, but shapes the tone for the entire book.

I love tonal, atmospheric books with brilliant, unique voices. Once again, this book was AWESOME.

I kept waiting for the moment when nothing would come together and I’d be disappointed. And hey, maybe because I was waiting, because I was expecting the book to fall apart, I was pleasantly surprised instead of disappointed. Honestly, though, I don’t think it was just that. Even without the forewarning, I have a feeling I would have loved the snot out of this book no matter what. I want to hug it and read it six more times, and see it on my shelves and smile as I remember all the little details.

Now, I don’t think the book is for everyone, the same way I don’t think Edward Gorey is for everyone. Not everyone likes morbid comedy, and again I saw some reviewers talk about how the funny and the horrifying didn’t really mix. For me – a huge fan of morbid comedy and psychology and mysteries that aren’t really mysteries but are really more emotional puzzles – it all fit together seamlessly. And mixed with all the pop-culture references from the 90s, not to mention music and literature references all throughout (I grew up in a house of professional musicians), this really added up to the Perfect Book For Amanda. And as you can see, I kinda want to become a crusader for this book, shoving it into people’s hands, telling you all THAT IT WOULD BE A PERFECT SELECTION FOR WHEN RIP*** STARTS THIS SEPTEMBER, and…well, you see. It’s lovely. Please read.

**Except one bizarre section that switched twice in about a page, the only time in the book to do this, and which really annoyed me because I hate when things are out of place, though at the same time, it made my brain start traveling down other avenues of thought, questioning identities of certain characters, and while I wasn’t questioning the identities of the right characters, my thoughts had led me in the right direction for a later twist, which was very satisfying!

***Ooh, maybe I’ll see if there’s an audiobook version available to listen to for RIP! I’ll bet this could be awesome on audio, if it’s done right.

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July Yarn Art

stress-crochetI admit: with so much construction going on this month, not to mention heat, medicine issues, the boys’ camps, Jason traveling, blah blah blah, there’s been a lot of stress, and with all the stress, I’ve coped with copious amounts of crochet. Considering the tons and tons of yarn I had sitting around, it was probably good to use some of it up. I’ve also been quite pleased with the results, and so yes, I will show them off here!

07 Nat's hatFirst up, I made a beanie for my good friend Natalie. I used the same pattern, from One Skein Wonders, as the beanie I made back in March. I loved that beanie so much, and Nat gets cold easily, and the colors in this particular color-changing skein reminded me of her. Ambrose is modeling the beanie above.

07 Moms candle holdersMy mom’s birthday was in early July, so I decided to crochet some candle-holder covers for her. The boys and I went down to our local thrift store and bought jars – eight votive candle holders and two mason jars, as well as a basket to hold them all. Then I used a couple different tiny-sized yarns to make the covers. Each was unique, making up my own pattern. Some came out better than others.

07 asymmetrical bagThis was another One Skein Wonders pattern, an asymmetrical-close bag. This was an extremely simple and quick pattern to follow. It only took a couple hours to put together, and it’s all one contiguous line, with no need to join or sew lines together. The mesh bottom of the bag is sturdy and stretchy, making the bag a perfect size for a trip to the library, a quick grocery run, an individual swim kit, or an overnight bag. On the other hand, I’m not a huge fan of the asymmetrical handle. It’s kinda cool that it slips through to close, but I’d rather have two long handles. The good news is that I had enough of this blue shiny yarn (thanks Karen!) to make another this size with two longer straps! (not pictured)

lovebatLove-bat. Story behind this one: When Ambrose turned 10, Jason and I found this bizarre stuffed pink thing that looked vaguely baseball bat shaped at the thrift store. Ambrose has always loved the feel of crocheted things, so we bought it for him. You can see, in the insert, his marvelous reaction, and he still owns and loves the item alternately known as the pink worm, pink maggot, and love-bat. I crocheted a purple love-bat to match it for his 14th birthday! At his party, he pulled out both bats and began a kind of pillow fight with them…

yarnbagI have a lot of extra yarn lying around, mostly leftovers from older projects, and I wanted to start using it up. I also have a lot of yarn in general, and wanted a bag to hold a bunch of it. I’ve seen various pictures of granny-square bags around, and yarn-bags, so I decided to cobble together my own. The above is the end-result. The majority of the grannies used the pattern found on this blog, modified to add another layer for edging. Then, ironically, I joined the squares using methods not featured at that link. Ha! I learned a lot about joining and blocking on this project, and in the end, it holds probably a third of the yarn I own (yes, I own too much!). Plus, it used up 6-7 leftover skeins and a big chunk of several others. And granny squares always remind me of my maternal grandmother, so this bag makes me happy every time I see it!

The follow three pics are just further dragon-egg dice bags and tarot bags that I made throughout the month. I really like little projects like this! Very quick and satisfying.

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07 tarot bag  dragon egg

Everything else I worked on in July is gift-related, and so I’ll save all that until after said gifts are received!

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Sunday Coffee – July Belongs to Other Stuff*

IMG_5592July was not a bookish month. I read three books, which split out like this: One – listened on audio while crocheting and barely remember. Two – read quickly right after the audio and barely remember. Three – took three weeks to read despite it being simple and I had to keep reminding myself that I was in the middle of it, and then I didn’t really even like it. I’m not in a slump, not exactly, but I don’t see the non-book trend ending** before RIP season starts in a month. And honestly, this is normal for me at this time of year. Last year, when I hit an actual slump in mid-September, I wrote this:

Usually, I don’t read a whole lot in the late, super-hot summer months. I enter RIP-season full speed ahead, ripping my way (pun intended) through tons of books in September and October. I crash at the end of October, and read almost nothing in November and December.

Last year was odd for me, because I read tons and tons through July and August, crashing in mid-September. This year was more typical, with my heavy-reading months going from mid-April to mid-June. Generally, the huge reading months come after a giant influx of TBR, physical or virtual, and then I speed-read/cull my way through the pile until there’s only a tiny handful left. This leaves me without any desire to read for a few months. Coupled with extreme heat and the kids being home for the summer, this works out perfect for me. I return refreshed for RIP, which I didn’t do last year and hope to do this year!

In the meantime, I’ll keep crocheting (big yarn-art post coming tomorrow), binge-watching Downton Abbey with my boys, and counting down the days until school begins (three weeks to go!!).

*When I had Ambrose in 2002, the hospital had a display of “July is…” holidays. One of them was “July is National July Belongs to Blueberries Month” which was just bizarre but totally memorable and totally real.

**With the exception of two books: Sandlands by Rosy Thornton, her newest released that she sent to me for review. I adore Thornton’s writing, and look forward to checking out her short stories! And of course Cursed Child, which I will go pick up this morning. Sadly, I didn’t attend any release parties. I barely get enough sleep these days as it is without staying up super late… (she says at 6:30 am after being up for the last hour…)

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Spark Joy, by Marie Kondo

spark joySubtitled: An Illustrated Master Class on the Art of Organizing and Tidying Up

This is a follow-up to The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up, which I read and loved last summer. I spent six months last year doing a giant tidy-festival, and learned a lot in the process. I was really excited about this companion book, because I knew it had a lot of extras and continuations.

In the end, though, I wish I’d gotten it from the library instead of buying it. There was very little in here that was new, and what was new contradicted my own already-established ways of following the KonMari method. Maybe if I’d read it right away, that could have helped me. As it is, I just passed over sections that taught me new ways of what I’d already learned differently through the first book, and in places where I differed, the end of the book approved anyway:

“As long as you acquire a firm grasp of the basics, then go ahead and make your own decisions, guided by what brings you joy.”

On the other hand, there was one part of the whole process last time that I kinda skipped over, and that was the whole “imagining your ideal lifestyle” bit. I did try to do that, but the thing is, my ideal lifestyle is somewhat fluid. I’ve long had in me two contrasting ideas of a perfect lifestyle, and they’ve been in conflict since I reached adulthood. I only recently realized the source of that conflict, and now have a clearer idea of which direction to go, and so I plan to revisit this section more firmly before I do my mini-tidy marathon this fall.

I wish I’d enjoyed this book more. It might have partly been my mood, but I suspect that it was the book itself. A lot of the information, and even stories, were repeats, and I didn’t find the illustrations to be particularly instructive. Ah well.

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The Books Made Me Do It

Today’s Top Ten Tuesday asks about the things books have made me want to learn or do. Excluding travel-related things (“I really want to see X now”), I have eight that I can think of off the top of my head. Here goes:

natureofjade1. The Nature of Jade by Deb Caletti – This book made me want to learn all about elephants. Elephants are still my favorite animal.

2. the Raven Cycle by Maggie Stiefvater – I’d never been interested in learning Latin until reading this series.

3. The Omnivore’s Dilemma by Michael Pollan – I didn’t expect this book to completely turn me off processed food and convince me to try a lot more produce than I ever had in my life.

4. The Night Circus by Erin Morgenstern – I’d decided to quit writing nearly a year before I read this one, and it convinced me to start writing again.

life-changing5. The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up by Marie Kondo – Well, this one’s obvious.

6. Eat Pray Love by Elizabeth Gilbert – I started doing yoga after reading this one.

7. Relish by Lucy Knisley – She almost convinced me to cook. She didn’t, but there was a while that I thought I was interesting in learning. That counts, right?

8. Humans of New York (and further editions) by Brandon Stanton – I love how well Stanton captures the spread of humanity and diversity, and his project has made me want to both take up photography and start my own diversity project!

What books have inspired you?

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Sunday Coffee – Home Stretch

IMG_5498This summer has been galloping by. Travel, construction, camps. Funny to realize there are only four weeks left. Four weeks that will be filled with more travel, construction, and camps, heh. My brain is therefore a bit scattered, and today I will discuss various tidbits of life!

House
The bulk of construction is done on our house. In other words, we have walls again, after two months without them. Here’s the deal: With a 45-year old house, you expect to have issues. You expect to fix things. And with a house formerly owned by a disabled, mentally-ill veteran who only used one room of the house, you don’t expect things to be terribly well cared for. We expected all this, and didn’t mind it. What we DIDN’T expect was to discover that whoever was “maintaining” the house for the mentally-ill, disabled vet was scamming him in the most disgusting, unethical way ever. Some of the “repairs” were so dangerous that they could have killed the former occupant or us. (Sewer gas venting into the a/c unit? Seriously?)

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(top left is current: we have walls!)

The good news is that we’ve ripped apart a great majority of this house and have made a lot of repairs. Sure, we wish that we’d discovered the problems in February instead of the summer, because ripping out walls in 100+ degree heat is NO FUN, but all is well, and the guy who worked on our house did a fantastic job. Jason and Ambrose were both involved in the construction, and know how everything stands (the advantages of hiring a friend). There is still stuff to do – caulking, trimming, painting, etc – but we have walls, windows, and a front door again, and our house won’t collapse onto us. I do wish I knew who was scamming the vet, because I think he ought to be dealt with. Unfortunately, this was an estate sale and the vet’s mother sold the house from a distance, so there’s no way of knowing. So I’m letting it go. And it’s a relief knowing that the house is now in much better shape than it was before.

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(And we have bookshelves! Still in progress, of course.)

Family
Yesterday was my sister’s bridal shower. Ambrose turns 14 tomorrow and will have his party later today. Laurence finished his two weeks of musical theatre camp and did a fantastic job in his performances. Ambrose just finished a week of programming camp at St Mary’s University. Morrigan starts band camp this week. Jason will be spending a few days in Nashville for work in the near future. And so the crazy continues.

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turning 13 vs turning 14

Yarn
I think I have a yarn addiction… To be fair to myself, though, most of this yarn was either at really deep discount or given to me. And I’ve been making lots of lovely things! (Post forthcoming.)

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And now, I’ve gotta go get ready for that birthday party!! See y’all later!

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The Scorpion Rules, by Erin Bow

scorpionIt’s the future, and AIs rule the world. Talis, one of the first AIs, was charged by the UN to stop the wars sparking all across the globe after too many natural resources disappeared and conflict swelled proportionately. They didn’t expect him to take control of all the satellite systems, start blowing up cities, and lay down a hostage system for the sons and daughters of all world leaders. The rule is simple, Talis says. If you go to war, your children will die.

These “children of peace” are reared away from their families, clustered together in isolated schools where they learn history, obedience, and dignity. They know their lives may be forfeit at any moment, no matter how much their parents love them. They know that if they act out or try to escape, they – and the others of their age at school – will be punished (ie tortured). And if they survive to adulthood, they will rule, and their own children will become hostages in their place.

That is the setup of this book, which is the beginning of a series. I won’t talk about the actual storyline at all, because this is the sort of book that is best going into with minimal information. Bow does a great job at introducing the characters and world through the very narrow viewpoint of Princess Greta of the Pan Polar Confederacy. There is a lot of moral quandary that comes up, and the AIs were a fascinating amoral lot. The story was compelling, and the characters are interesting, though a tad unbelievable at times honestly. I’m definitely looking forward to reading the next story.

For me, though, the most interesting thing about this book was the world-building. Of course, it’s impossible to say how one might act if the world was governed this way by machines. However, I can’t imagine acting in some of the ways some characters act. Here are some examples (kept vague and spoiler-free!):

1. Imagine you rule a country and your child will die if you declare war or allow war to be declared on you. You have a bond with your child, because of course the machines wouldn’t just ship your kids off wholesale and let that bond wither. Another country needs something unreasonable from your country, or vice versa. If you can’t reach a reasonable agreement, you have a choice. Either let some of your population die off because you can’t get them what they need, or you go to war knowing your child will die. Notably, you also know that the AIs will not let war last, and there’s a good possibility they will step in, destroy a lot of your country, and force you to make peace anyway. Okay. Here’s the thing: I can’t picture any reason at all that would induce me to go to war. What would it matter if a couple hundred thousand strangers in my country’s population get sick or die, if the child I loved would be safe? Heck, those strangers would probably die anyway if the AIs step in once war started. I see no point in trying to save resources. Maybe that just means I’m a bad leader, but frankly, I doubt most leaders would sacrifice their families for their country…

2. Imagine you’re a hostage, and if you misbehave, you will be tortured, and so will others around you. You have zero chance of escape beyond living to your eighteenth birthday. Nothing you do to defy your situation will change it. It will only hurt you and other people. Would you fight against the system, fruitlessly, at your own and others’ costs? Personally, I can imagine fighting fruitlessly if, for instance, my country went to war and I was being dragged off to my death. In that situation, I’m going to die anyway, so I might as well try to live. Otherwise, thought? No. I’d behave like a good hostage and hope my parents kept me safe. I certainly wouldn’t do anything that would cause my peers to be tortured. Sheesh.

Anyway, there were a few things in the world-building, like those vague examples, that made me wonder about the particular exploration of human ethics. And even though I disagree with some of the things Bow did through her story, I can also see that perhaps my point of view is simply my own. There are many different kinds of people in the world who might have many different kinds of reactions to this kind of world. The exploration itself was fascinating. I’m looking forward to seeing it through new eyes in the sequel.

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The Shadow Hour, by Melissa Grey (audio)

shadow hourSequel to The Girl At Midnight.

Caveat: I barely remember this book, despite having just listened to it. This is not the book’s fault. This is entirely my fault, as I listened to it while doing about a thousand other things, only half paying attention. So my thoughts on the book are very vague, and are more general impressions than thoughts. This is definitely one I will be revisiting before the final book in the trilogy comes out.

So, my general impressions, bullet-style:

  • I enjoyed the book, though not as much as the first one. Again, this is possibly my own fault.
  • I really ought to have reread the first book before starting this one. I was slowly reintroduced to a lot of things, but there’s still a lot I felt I was missing.
  • I enjoyed the second half of the book more than the first, though I couldn’t say why.
  • I felt like there was too much lingering over the love triangle, which I thought, in the first book, was less of a love triangle and more of a shifting set of interests. But maybe I just don’t remember properly.
  • I really loved the introduction of a dark force opposite the light force, and the discussion of light/dark and what influences them.
  • I didn’t like the audio performance as well this time, while I loved it for the first book. I couldn’t say why or how they were different.
  • Jasper’s story was my favorite.

Aaaaaand that’s about it. That’s pathetic. Perhaps when I revisit these books before the next one comes out, I’ll write a full review of this book.

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