Top Ten Books for Readers Who Like Friendships

We got to choose our own theme for today’s topic (Readers who like ____), and I chose friendships in fiction, because this is a particularly difficult thing to find! My top ten:

golem jinni1. The Golem and the Jinni by Helene Wecker – There are romances in this book, but the two main characters are just friends, and form a great friendship!

2. the Mistborn trilogy (and Elantris, and Warbreaker, and the Stormlight Archive…) by Brandon Sanderson – Sanderson is the number one master of friendships (individual and group) of any author I’ve ever read.

3. The Elegance of the Hedgehog by Muriel Barbery – The friendship formed between the two main characters here pretty much saves both of them. Love that!

4. the Raven Cycle by Maggie Stiefvater – Raved about this so many times. Love the friendship between all these characters, even when romance is also added to the mix. Friends first.

5. The Unit by Ninni Holmqvist – While this dystopia is horrifying in some ways, the love and communion found in the center are just brilliant.

crossed-wires6. Crossed Wires (and others) by Rosy Thornton – Thornton writes romances, yes, but the friendships always come first and foremost. There is no romance without friendship first.

7. The Housekeeper and the Professor by Yoko Ogawa – There are only really three characters in this book, all of them without names, all of them forming a tight-knit clan of people who cherish and protect each other.

8. The Night Circus by Erin Morgenstern – The romance that develops in this one takes years to form, comes after friendship first, and then there’s the whole connection of all the people involved in the circus. I was particularly touched by Celia’s relationship with the clock-maker.

9. Bridge to Terabithia by Katherine Paterson – I ran out of adult/YA books. I said this was difficult! It’s much easier to find friendships in children’s books because there’s rarely romance at that reading level. Of all the children’s books I’ve read, however, the friendship between the two main characters in this book is one of my favorites.

10. MWF Seeking BFF by Rachel Bertsche – This is another cheater-pants answer, but really, it’s a good one – nonfiction about friendships (forming, keeping, the importance of, etc).

Notes: Interesting that four of these are ones I mentioned as new favorites in last week’s post, plus two more would be on that list if I’d gone back another year instead of putting my cutoff at 2011 last week. Shows how much I value friendships in fiction! Also interesting to note: Not including my last two cheater-pants answers, half of my answers are non-US books, despite the fact that US books make up the great majority of what I read.

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Sunday Coffee – Nonfiction Rec Requests

IMG_9496Every few years, I go on a short nonfiction kick. I’m not really a big nonfiction reader most of the time, so I take advantage of these times whenever they come up. Over the last couple months, I’ve read and enjoyed tons (for me) of nonfic, including a book on parental psychology (All Joy and No Fun), two memoirs (Choose Your Own Autobiography and Displacement), a history (The Romanov Sisters), and a trauma psychology (The Body Keeps the Score – review forthcoming).

I have a few other nonfiction books on my immediate radar. However, because I rarely read nonfiction and am very picky about those I do read, I really don’t know much of what’s out there! I need some good nonfic recommendations, especially those that work well on audio. Some of you out there are so much smarter than me re: nonfiction, so I’m asking – what’s good? What should I check out?

Preferences: food history/science, psychology, sociological issues, cultural and geographical explorations, religion or history ONLY in a sociological context, cultural anthropology, gender studies of all kinds (including both LGBTQ studies and women’s studies), and light literary analysis. Things I generally don’t enjoy: politics, military history, non-sociological history or religion, inspirational, memoir/diary/journal except in rare cases, biography, letters, self-help, and nonfiction with a very strong bias. I have a directory of all the nonfiction I’ve read and blogged about, and my About section lists a few of my favorite nonfiction works over the last few years.

Thank you, smart bloggers!! I appreciate it. 🙂

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36 in 36

Last year, on my 35th birthday, I made a list of 35 little things to do during my 35th year. Two months after I made that list, my life drastically changed, and I ended up only completing about 2/3rds of my mini-goals. Still, for having moved across the country and all the other stuff that happened in my 35th year, I think I did pretty well. And I really like the idea of choosing a bunch of fun-stuff mini-goals to complete over the course of a birth-year. I decided to do the same this year, and have given myself 36 fun little things to do before March 1st, 2016:

1. Visit Maine – DONE
2. Visit New Hampshire – DONE
3. Visit Vermont – DONE
4. Visit Rhode Island – DONE
5. Visit Niagara Falls – DONE
6. Visit Canada* – DONE
7. Wear a skirt/dress 6x** – DONE
8. Have people over for dinner 6x – DONE
9. Shop at a thrift store 6x – DONE
10. Get a massage 6x – DONE
11. Try 6 new-to-me restaurants – DONE
12. Try 6 new kinds (not brands) of wine – DONE
13. Go out with friends 12x – DONE
14. Try 12 new-to-me coffee varieties – DONE
15. Take 12 long walks (longer than a 5k) – DONE
16. Complete 36 random acts of kindness – DONE
17. Wear makeup*** – DONE
18. Attend a street festival – DONE
19. Get my Phantom tattoo
20. Get my Summer Rain tattoo****
21. Fully participate in NaNoWriMo – DONE
22. Finish paralegal course – Quit
23. Finish through Level 3 of Spanish Rosetta Stone – Quit
24. Attend or host a book club – DONE
25. Dress up for Halloween – DONE
26. Visit the zoo – DONE
27. Go bowling – DONE
28. Play pool – DONE
29. Go swimming with my boys – DONE
30. Participate in a 5K – DONE
31. Out of my comfort zone fitness (roller skate, climbing wall, etc) – DONE
32. Attend a play, musical, or dinner theatre – DONE
33. Take a bubble bath – DONE
34. Participate in a painting group/class – DONE
35. See a movie in theatre – DONE
36. Buy fun pajamas – DONE

ETA on 3/1/16: Completed all goals except 19, 20, 22, and 23, though those latter two I decided to quit rather than completing them.

*The first six goals are travel-based and specifically meant to be easy family vacations while living here in Boston. They are all places I’ve never been before, and several of these are on my bucket-list.

**Dresses/skirts make me very uncomfortable. I just don’t like them. So why make the goal? Well, it’s kinda like dressing up for Halloween. A costume, to get me out of my comfort zone a little.

***Yes, just once. In the last decade, I’ve worn makeup twice. Once was for a Halloween costume (flapper, 2013). Once, a Middle Eastern salon did my hair and makeup for my sister’s wedding in Palestine in Feb 2008. I don’t even own nail polish, much less makeup of any kind, nor do I know how to actually use the stuff as I can probably count on two hands the number of times I’ve worn makeup in my entire life. So this will be interesting.

****These two tattoos are related to two of my manuscripts, Phantom and Summer Rain. For each manuscript I get to submission-ready quality, I earn a tiny representative tattoo on my left forearm. These two are both overdue.

PS. I enjoyed my birthday. Pics (whittled down from the many I put on Instagram):

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(They gave me a birthday tiara & free candy at The Paint Bar.)

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(My birthday theme was “nostalgia.” Jason did a great job with the cake.)

 

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The Girl on the Train, by Paula Hawkins

girlontrainSpoilers.

Rachel is struggling. Her husband left her for another woman, she’s lost her job, and she’s an alcoholic. Every day, she takes the train into London to maintain the appearance of going to work, and every day, she passes her former home that her ex-husband now shares with his new wife and daughter. A few doors down from them lives a couple that Rachel’s never met, though she fantasizes about the perfection of their lives – until one day, when she sees something abnormal. Now, the woman from that house is missing, and because of Rachel’s alcohol problems, the police don’t believe her story when she comes forward.

I don’t believe I was as in love with this book as everyone else seems to be. Sure, it was fast-paced and demanded to be read. Most thrillers are that way, though. I enjoyed the story well enough. I never wanted to stop reading. In the end, though, I just felt tired and vaguely sick. Part of that is because I read it too fast – I’m not big into fast-paced, demand-to-be-read, can’t-put-it-down books – but another big part of it had to do with the characters in this book.

There was no one here that was likable. I remember people saying things like that about Gone Girl, so when I decided to read Gone Girl, I went in knowing this in advance. Maybe that’s just a thing these days, and thrillers are normally about very unlikable people? I don’t read enough of them to know, but now that I look back, I think just about every thriller I’ve read in the last few years has followed this same pattern. Especially psychological thrillers. And I don’t like reading about a bunch of people I can’t care about in any way. Even if someone is unlikable, I want to be able to root for them.

Similarly, the whole book felt…not predictable. Predictable is not the right word. I didn’t guess ahead of time who the killer would be. But it didn’t surprise me when the killer’s identity had been revealed. It wouldn’t have surprised me if any of these characters had been the killer, or even if the book had gone the way of Gone Girl (which I had guessed in the first first pages). I wanted there to be something unique, something different from other thrillers and murder-mysteries, but gaslighting and hidden domestic violence and sordid affairs are all so…commonplace in these kinds of books. That isn’t to say the book wasn’t well-written. It was, or I wouldn’t have continued reading it. But by the time I got to the end, it felt like every other thriller I’d read, and when I went to draft this review the next day, I couldn’t even remember the characters’ names.

I hate sounding this negative about a book. It wasn’t a bad book. It was well-written, and exactly what it claimed to be. I think I’m personally just not real enamored of thrillers in general, and I probably ought to stop expecting to be when I go into them. They often leave me cold and bogged down, with a bad taste in my mouth. So please don’t take my word about this. Many people adore this book, and probably have something more useful to say about it than I do.

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Top Ten NEW All-time Faves

Today’s prompt says to list ten new favorites from the last three years, and noted that we could go back a bit further if necessary. It was definitely necessary for me. One year of the last three (2013) had no new favorites at all! So this list comes from the last four years, in order of when I read them:

thehostcover1. The Host by Stephenie Meyer – This was my very first book of 2011, on audio, and such a brilliant experience (especially compared to my lukewarm, didn’t-make-it-through experience with Twilight). This one still periodically comes back to me, and I remember that over the course of listening to it, I would dream about it nearly every night.

2. The Unit by Ninni Holmqvist – This is exactly what a dystopian novel should be, and has some of my favorite quotes of all time in it.

3. The Omnivore’s Dilemma by Michael Pollan – Revolutionized the way I look at food.

night_circus_cover4. The Night Circus by Erin Morgenstern – When I read this, I had decided nearly a year before to stop writing. This book got me to write again, and for the next few years, I read it every year during the fall.

5. Howl’s Moving Castle by Diana Wynne Jones – After attempting and failing to read this one multiple times over multiple years, I tried the audio version and fell completely in love. So in love that I believe I listened to it six or seven times before I was willing to move on to other books.

6. the Mistborn trilogy and many others by Brandon Sanderson – I know it’s cheating to have three books in one, but these go together. Sanderson completely changed the way I thought about fantasy, and I think I remember the characters in this series more than any other I’ve ever read. Many of his other books have the same amazing qualities.

7. the Daughter of Smoke and Bone trilogy by Laini Taylor – I never expected to like these. I got the first book as a free audio download one summer. Then I was hooked, and Taylor delivered all the way through the series.

shadow8. Shadow and Bone by Leigh Bardugo – While I was less enamored by the end of this particular series, the first book still stands out to me as one of the best-crafted fantasy worlds I’ve ever experienced, and I adore every moment in this book.

9. the Girl of Fire and Thorns trilogy by Rae Carson – Another brilliant world-builder, and this one struck me particularly because of the way Carson incorporated an entire religious system into her characters’ lives.

10. the Raven Cycle by Maggie Stiefvater – After I babbled on and on about these books last fall, is it any wonder that they showed up here? PS – I’m relistening to these right now…

I didn’t choose any books from 2015 because it’s too early to tell if they will become favorites, but there are a few contenders already this year that might eventually end up here. Yay!

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Sunday Coffee – Birthday!

IMG_9418It’s my birthday!

Today I’m 36 years old, and happy to be so. I don’t have much planned – Jason and I are going to paint a little later today, and I believe we’re having a cake tonight. Things will be low-key this year. I’m happy to say that starting today, it’s supposed to be above freezing here for five days in a row. !!!!! Of course, there’s also a winter weather advisory tonight and a possible addition of 4-6 inches of more snow…

In the spirit of it being a me-day (ha!), I’ve decided to answer the questions that Shaina from Shaina Reads posed to me in her blog this week.

goodnightmoon1. What is the first book you can vividly remember reading?

I don’t know if “reading” is the right term, but I very vividly remember Goodnight Moon from my childhood. I must have had the words memorized. Still, the memory is vivid, and so I’m counting it. 😀 Also, I bought myself that shirt –> as an early birthday gift.

2. If you only had time to read one more book in your life, would you want it to be an old favorite or a new one? Why?

Definitely an old favorite. If I only had time to read one more book, then I assume I’d know I was dying. I would want as much comfort as possible in that time, and thus would choose to spend that time with an old friend, rather than trying to collect new sensations.

3. How do you feel about footnotes in books?

In academic works, I think they’re fine as long as there’s more text than footnotes, and I prefer the footnotes to be on the same page rather than having to flip back and forth in the text. In fiction, I like them as long as they serve some humorous function (like Fforde’s “footnoterphone” or the footnotes in Jonathan Strange & Mr. Norrell).

4. Say someone offered to write you an awesome non-fiction book of your choosing. What would the topic be?

I guess, if I could specify the author, I would love Brandon Sanderson to write a book about writing, encompassing both technique (world-building, writing good friendships and group dynamics into novels, etc) and the writing methods themselves (I’ve read an essay from him on that part and it was wonderful). If I couldn’t specify the author, I really have no idea what to ask for. I’m so picky about nonfiction!

journal5. Besides reading, what’s your favorite/most time-consuming hobby?

Well, if you count writing as a hobby instead of as a potential career, that would be it. Otherwise, fitness? Blogging? Journaling? I don’t really pick up a lot of hobbies to be honest. Coffee. Does coffee count as a hobby?

6. Which book was most uncomfortable for you to read? Did you finish it?

Not sure I can answer this one. I’ve finished lots of uncomfortable books, and discarded lots of them, too (and wish I’d discarded some others). I guess it depends on the kind of discomfort.

7. Can you read in a language besides English? If not, which language would you pick?

I can read passably in French, and the more I practice, the better I get. A few years back, I read the entire Harry Potter series in French, and it got easier with each book. I’d love to be able to read in it fluently.

8. Is there a genre you’ve changed your mind about? (Disliking to liking, or vice versa.)

Definitely. I used to avoid most fantasy, especially more traditional fantasy. I also used to love memoirs, and mostly avoid them now. Biggest of all, there was a time in my life when I only enjoyed classics and disliked nearly all modern fiction. Those days are long gone.

9. Do you give or take more book recommendations?

Probably give. I take plenty, but only to try them out, and I end up not reading most in the end. (Sorry!)

10. In the vein of #8, have you ever changed your mind about a specific book?

Definitely. There are some books that I think are brilliant on first read, and later can barely remember. Similarly, there are books that don’t make much of an impression in the beginning, only to stay in my mind for months and months, until they become favorites. I’m not sure I’ve ever gone from love to hate or vice versa, though. Just up or down from neutral.

11. Do you use your public library? Why or why not?

I use my library ALL THE TIME. I don’t own a lot of books, or want to own a lot of books. I prefer the library. In that same vein, I really miss my San Antonio library. The one here is great, yes, but there are a lot of things that it doesn’t have. Plus, now that there’s ice all over the place, I can no longer walk there. Boo.

Note: I think the point of these meme is for me to now come up with questions to tag others with, but…nah. 😀 It’s too early in the morning for my brain to be that coherent.

Hope you all have a fantastic day! ❤

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Queen Mab, by Percy Bysshe Shelley

Queen MabPreface: I really, really suck at reading poetry. And I mean REALLY. As in, 90% of the time, I can’t understand a word I read. Several years ago, I started a project to try to improve my poetry-reading skills, and to finally find some poetry I actually enjoyed. While I managed to do the latter (Sonnets from the Portuguese and If Not, Winter), I never did get any better at comprehension. Since then, I haven’t tried much to read more poetry, and as of Queen Mab, my post-blogging poetry count remains pitifully under twenty. Ah well.

A few years back, right around my same poetry-attempting era, Jason mentioned that he wanted to read Queen Mab, and I bought him a collection of Shelley’s poetry that included it. In mid-January, we decided to read through it together over the course of several weeks, with Jason reading aloud, and stopping periodically to explain to me what was going on. (Again, I only understand about 10% of the time!) Queen Mab is relatively short – just under 60 pages – and is broken into nine cantos. We read 1-2 cantos per week.

Sadly, I cannot say that my comprehension improved much over time. There were certainly areas where I understood more/better, but mostly, Jason was explaining things to me pretty consistently as we went along. This means that I understood the general gist of things, but none of the finer intricacies of the poem. For example: At one point, Jason mentioned the significance of a particular repetition and rhyme, and Shelley’s use of repetition or rhyme to emphasize something important. I hadn’t even realized there’d been a rhyme or a repetition. Yeah.

So I didn’t pick up much in the way of subtlety, sadly. But honestly, I wasn’t expecting to, and I did understand a certain amount of Shelley’s messages in Queen Mab, most likely because he was extremely heavy-handed with them. Shelley was militantly anti-religion, anti-money, anti-law, pro-vegetarianism, pro-anarchy, and pro-free-sexual-expression. Throughout this philosophical poem, Queen Mab takes a pure and virtuous spirit through a journey of man’s past, present, and future, decrying all the things Shelley believed caused corruption of the soul, and then promising a future where mankind breaks free of everything that corrupts him and becomes immortal perfection, in harmony with the world around him.

I…didn’t agree with most of what Shelley put forth, and I had a few Disney Princess moments when he described how all the animals would flock without fear to be man’s friend in paradise, but honestly, I didn’t go into this poem in order to learn/debate philosophy. I knew upfront that Shelley and I disagreed on many points, and I’d heard that he claimed Queen Mab to be an uneven, heavy-handed poem that he thought was one of the lesser of his works. I didn’t go in trying to read something great – I went in trying to read something at all. Did I enjoy Queen Mab? Not particularly. I rarely enjoy poetry. On the other hand, I enjoyed the experience of reading it, the experience of Jason reading to me and helping me to understand, even if at the end I’m still a poetry-dummy. I’m also glad to have finally read something by Shelley. Despite our very different viewpoints, I’ve wanted to experience his poetry ever since reading a lot by/about Lord Byron back in 2011. I feel I’m a (slightly) less ignorant person now for having done so.

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Top Ten Favorite Heroines

Today’s topic was hard. There are just so many great heroines out there! And narrowing it down to ten?? Sigh. Well, here goes…

1. Blue from the Raven Cycle by Maggie Stiefvater – She is phenomenal. Just trust me.

Jane_Eyre_Bronte2. Jane Eyre from Jane Eyre (ha!) by Charlotte Bronte – Strong, independent, passionate, and true to herself. Frickin’ awesome.

3. Karou from the Daughter of Smoke and Bone trilogy by Laini Taylor – I wish I could be her friend in real life. And Zuzana’s, because really, they’re both great heroines, and yes this is totally a cheat to get an extra name in…

4. Vin from the Mistborn trilogy by Brandon Sanderson – While I love many heroines, there are very few that I actually feel like I relate to. Vin is one of them.

5. Genya from the Shadow and Bone trilogy by Leigh Bardugo – I could have said Alina, the narrator for this series, but for me, Genya was the real stand-out heroine. Even if she makes some bad decisions sometimes.

sophie6. Sophie from Howl’s Moving Castle by Diana Wynne Jones – How can you not fall in love with Sophie?

7. Katniss from the Hunger Games trilogy by Suzanne Collins – Like Vin above, I really related to Katniss. I’m one of the rare people who actually loved her part and character in Mockingjay and thought it was absolutely perfect.

8. Sarah from City of Dark Magic by Magnus Flyte – I put Sarah on here particularly because she keeps herself free of the sexual constraints so often put on women, and it was wonderful to read a character like her.

Thehostwanda9. Wanderer from The Host by Stephenie Meyer – Technically, Wanderer isn’t female (or male), but alien. She inhabits a female body, and takes on female traits, so for the purposes of this discussion, I’m including her. She is kind and brave and loyal.

10. Edna from The Awakening by Kate Chopin – Edna’s character may be tragic, and many people think of her as selfish. For me, however, she’s also a person who throws off the restraints forced on her and moves from helplessness into control over her own destiny. For that, she deserves to be included here as a heroine.

I just realized, I didn’t choose a single heroine from Harry Potter…hrm…

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Sunday Coffee – Seven Years

IMG_9383My blogoversary doesn’t mean much, given the number of times I’ve moved/quit/fallen-off-the-face-of-the-planet. To be honest, the day passed without me even realizing it. But if I were to pay attention to these things, and set them to dates, I’d have to say that my blogworld is now seven years old.

I published my first blog post ever on February 14th, 2008, and posted my very first book review the next day. In the seven years since, I’ve read/reviewed nearly 800 books. I’ve been through phases of reading too quickly. I’ve wandered from genre to genre. I’ve discovered new books and authors and media. I’ve made tons of blogger friends, and met up with quite a few of them over the years, as recently as last month. I’ve taken time off, and sorted out priorities, and am still blogging today. Maybe my blogoversary doesn’t really count, but for me, it’s the mark of an incredible adventure that’s still continuing today.

Originally, I thought it would be cool to rank my seven top favorite books of the past seven years. Yeeeeah…not going to happen. I have too many new favorites to narrow that list down to seven! Instead, here’s a list of seven amazing things that never would have happened to me if it weren’t for blogging and fellow bloggers.

1. When I started blogging, I only read classics, and had really only read classics (or Harry Potter) for a decade. Book bloggers introduced me to a whole world of other things to read – modern books, authors I’d never heard of, genres I’d never tried…

2. These seven years have also seen the evolution of hate-to-love in terms of audiobooks. Oh how I adore them now!

3. Book bloggers create the best online events. Readathon. RIP. Bloggiesta. Etc.

4. Before blogging, I’d never even heard of NaNoWriMo, nor did I think it was possible for me to write fiction quickly. While NaNo is not every writer’s cup of tea, I’ve discovered that I love starting a book this way, and then taking what I learned from that first fast draft and rewriting slowly from scratch. So thanks specifically to Chris for pushing me in that direction!

234 DABD Classics5. Does anyone still reading my blog remember Death and Baby Death? That vlog series is probably my favorite thing ever done in blogging. And yes, I still have all the videos.

6. Over the years, I’ve had several major trials, and several major successes. Bloggers have supported and encouraged me when I was attacked by the media, when I lost over 100 pounds, when I finished writing novels, when I moved across the country, and on and on and on. That support and encouragement has meant the world to me.

7. Meeting bloggers from all around the world! This is top on my list. I’ve met so many – Chris, Melissa, Trisha, Amy, Megan, Trish, Jenn, Jill, another Trish, another Jenn, Cari, April, Juli, Carl, Aarti, Ceri, Anna, Reagan, Candace, Heather, Sheila, Lenore, Amy, Care, Kim, Serena, Nat, Jen…and that’s just the handful I can think of off the top of my head! That doesn’t even begin to cover the hundreds met at BEA in 2010 (another one of those things I never would have done without blogging!).

I know I haven’t always been terribly consistent, but I’m grateful for all the things blogging has given me over the years, and for all the friends I’ve made – and continue to make – because of something as simple as writing about books (and other stuff!). Love y’all!

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The Romanov Sisters, by Helen Rappaport (audio)

romanov sistersSubtitled: The Lost Lives of the Daughters of Nicholas and Alexandra.

I have long been fascinated by the Romanovs and their fate during the Russian Revolution. At the same time, I learned very little in school about Russia’s politics and history besides the cursory glances related to the Cold War. My attempts to learn more have failed in the past because honestly, I’m just not terribly good with the way history is normally taught. Many historical texts are dull and dry, and go right through my brain without making the slightest impression. (Notably, what to me is “dull and dry” might be quite well written to someone better versed in these things!) In general, I tend to study history either through memoir, cultural case study, or children’s nonfiction. The latter, in particular, helps simplify things enough for me to understand. (Yes, I know. I’m really bad at reading history!)

About a year ago, I heard of a children’s nonfiction called The Family Romanov. I was so excited! I thought I would finally be able to learn about the Romanov family without getting too bogged down in political and military stuff. It’s the people I’m interested in, and the series of events that happened to those people, not the state of the government. For me, the state of the government is the (very small) background on which a cultural study is laid. I’m more of a sociologist than a political scientist or military historian!

Unfortunately, when I did finally start listening to the audiobook of The Family Romanov (nonfiction works so much better on audio for me!), I didn’t get very far. The book began with a very strong bias, and I prefer much more moderate and unbiased nonfiction. I was so disappointed! Then, on the very same day that I gave up on that particular book, Kim from Sophisticated Dorkiness posted a picture on Instagram of The Romanov Sisters. I immediately looked up the book and discovered that the audio was read by Xe Sands, who I’d heard great things about. Sold!

Happily, The Romanov Sisters was everything I’d hoped for. Rappaport puts together the lives of the Romanov family through letters, diary entries, articles, etc. It follows their daily lives, relationships, and problems. Of course it’s impossible to really get to know people who are long-dead, but it really did feel like I was getting to know the seven members of this family. Of all of them, I felt a particular kinship with Alexandra, mother to the five children, for a wide variety of reasons that I’m not going to go into here (way too long!). All of them, however, I felt some connection to. So often, the rich and the royal and the famous are set so far apart from everyone that it’s hard to see them as anything more than their image or persona. This book helped to make them all real people, with loves and faults and heartaches and naivety and faith and friendships. Most of all, their ties to each other and their love of family made them so much more real and relatable for me.

Also, notably: This book made me eager to learn a lot more about Russian history. If that isn’t a recommendation, I don’t know what is!

Performance: Xe Sands was a great narrator for this book. I was particularly happy with all of the Russian names and French excerpts, though I admit that I wish I had a physical copy beside me so that I could more easily look up spellings of places and such!

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