The Woman Who Fell from the Sky, by Jennifer Steil

womanwhofellIn the mid-2000s, Jennifer Steil agreed to teach a three-week course on proper journalism in Yemen. At the end of her time there, she was offered a year-long contract managing the newspaper, and after a few weeks of reflection back in the states, she decided to accept. She returned to Yemen and began a fairly painful journey trying to improve the newspaper she was put in charge of.

Okay I know that description doesn’t sound like much unless you’re particularly interested in journalism or a behind-the-scenes look at how newspapers work. However, that’s not all this book is about. At its heart, this book is really about Yemen and the Yemeni people, and that’s why I wanted to read it. I’m not personally interested in journalism or newspapers, but I am interested in Yemen.

I didn’t even know where Yemen existed on a map before my sister spent a year teaching English there in 2005-2006, but ever since she went, the country has fascinated me. I loved her stories and have read a lot about Yemen since then, including one of my Enchantment books that I reviewed awhile back. I loved hearing all about the people and the culture, which is why I wanted to read this book. I was delighted that Steil included a lot of culture and people and traditions all through the book rather than focusing solely on journalism. It was actually pretty funny to read because a lot of the issues and problems Steil encounters with her staff at the newspaper are the same ones that my sister encountered with her students.

That really brings home what I liked so much about this book: it was a real and true look at the Yemeni people and at Yemeni culture. It did not, like in some memoirs I’ve read from the Middle East (The Bookseller of Kabul), treat Middle Eastern culture or Islam as inferior, stupid, backward, or alien. Steil took the time before going to Yemen to study the culture, and she embraced it as much as she could. She also respected the religious practices of the people in Yemen. She doesn’t condone everything that happens in Yemen, but she also doesn’t blanket-crucify everything that does (as Seierstad did). Steil takes the time to know the difference between injustice and simple cultural/religious differences. That is apparent from the very beginning of the book, and what made this book absolutely wonderful to me.

Steil is also a fantastic writer. Many memoirs are scattered and sort of random, but this one is cohesive and well put together. Steil demonstrates her training as a journalist and writer in this book so that not only is it respectful and accurate, but interesting to read. It normally takes me weeks to get through nonfiction but this only took a few days. I absolutely adored it!

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North and South, by Elizabeth Gaskell

north southWhen Margaret Hale’s father decides to leave the Church of England (he’s a preacher), the family is uprooted and moved to the industrial north, where Margaret gets involved in industrial-era politics. This book is both a romance and a political work about industrialism and class differences.

I’m really sorry to all those people out there who wanted me to read this one, but I really, really didn’t like it. I’d forgotten the things I didn’t like about my attempts to read Gaskell before, and went into this one thinking it would be different. It wasn’t. The experience was painful enough that after about a quarter of the way through, I started skimming, and after the halfway mark, I read the full synopsis on Wikipedia before super-skimming the rest. I can hardly say I’ve “read” this book, but I really wanted to make it through to the end. I wanted to finish something by Gaskell.

My issues were two-fold. First, there was the writing, which felt very clunky to me. It was all telling and no showing, and then it swung on a pendulum back and forth between gossip and politics. Every change in swing felt jarring, as if this were two different books sewn together. The second has to do with one of my pet peeves from nineteenth century literature, and something I noted when I first attempted to read Gaskell, in a Librivox audio recording of Ruth. Many writers, Gaskell included, treated women as if they were glass and would suffer from the slightest bit of damage. It didn’t take much to bring on faintness or deathly illness. All women had to do was cry, walk outside in the dew, get a very mild injury, have an emotional shock, breathe bad air, or have any part of their body touched by rain. Any one of those things, and others, is enough to nearly kill a woman in the nineteenth century, if you are to believe many writers. Of course, you have writers like Charlotte Bronte, who makes her heroine laugh at these notions and spend tons of time walking in both dew and rain without getting sick. Maybe that’s why I love Jane Eyre so much – the only time she gets deathly ill is after being exposed to the elements with no food for days on end, which I think would make anyone sick!

North and South definitely suffered from the melodramatic-woman syndrome. Margaret nearly dies because a pebble grazes her temple, and once they worry she’s going to be on her deathbed because she cries for a couple hours. I just have a hard time with that kind of silliness and melodrama, which (as I said above) I also discussed in my abandoned review of Ruth. At the time I thought perhaps it was the obnoxious Librivox narrator, who read the book as if reading to a kindergarten class, that made the book seem silly, rather than the events themselves, but that was far too hopeful and naive on my part.

As for the romance, I was hoping it would be the one element to redeem the book for me, but I quickly found out I didn’t enjoy it either. I disliked the chosen man (I highly preferred the man from the beginning), and at the same time, I felt like the romance was a major Pride & Prejudice rip-off anyway.

That’s it. That’s all I got out of this book. I really wanted to like it and really wish I had. It makes me very sad to react the way I did. I’m determined to give Gaskell one more chance, though, with Cranford. I’ve heard it’s very different from this one, which would be a good thing for me, and I’m also going to try listening to a professional audio recording of it, hoping that will help. It will be my third attempt at Gaskell, if you don’t count the one short story I read, and if it doesn’t work for me, then I’m just going to have to give up on her. I will give her a fair chance, but I can’t feel bad if three books in a row don’t work for me.

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Radio Shangri-La, by Lisa Napoli

Radio Shangri-La Final imageLisa Napoli traveled to Bhutan, a small country sandwiched between India and China, after hearing it was “the happiest kingdom on earth.” She was given the opportunity to go without the daily $200 tourist tariff as long as she helped set up a radio station while she was there. While in Bhutan, she learned a lot about the culture and formed many relationships with people there. This is her memoir of that time.

When I accepted this book from TLC Tours, I didn’t know anything about the radio-station portion of this book. I’m not sure how I missed it when checking out what the book would be about, but I did. For some odd reason, I thought this was going to be straight memoir/travelogue with a focus and concentration on the culture and people in Bhutan. It wasn’t, and I admit I didn’t pay much attention to the parts about the radio. Those parts weren’t what drew me to the book. Instead, I sifted through them to get to the parts about Bhutan.

Napoli does a great job painting a picture of what an outsider sees of the culture there. She talks about the food, the house structures, the way the families interact, etc. It made me want to go read one of my Enchantment of the World books on Bhutan, but unfortunately, my library doesn’t carry that particular volume. Sad! No supplemental reading for me on this review. It was interesting to see how many similarities exist between this country and other small countries I’ve studied in the past, not even from the same part of the world, and it made me wonder about how culture changes as a country progresses technologically.

I was sort of sad to hear about the “advances” Bhutan was making, like for instance the introduction of fast food chains. That’s one part of modern society that I’m not sure is a great one to add. It was discouraging to see how the people were trying to become more Western, willing to leave behind a lot of their own culture for this “new and better” one. I’m always sad when I hear about things like that!

The part that interested me most in this book was the relationship Napoli forms with a girl named Ngawang. It starts more like a friendship and develops into something more mother-daughter, in both good and bad ways. I like that the book took Napoli back to the US and then back to Bhutan a couple times so we could see the contrast, especially when Ngawang comes to visit her in California.

This was a pretty good book, even though it wasn’t exactly what I was expecting. I’m interesting in learning more about Bhutan, which, like many people, I’d never even heard of before now.

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Readathon: Chocolat, by Joanne Harris

chocolatVianne and her daughter Anouk move to a little town in France and open a chocolate shop, which offends the priest in town because she does this right at the start of the Lent season. The two lock into a battle of wills, and the whole town gets drawn into the fight.

I first tried to read this book in fall of 2009 and failed to get very far. However, I watched the movie a few months back and really enjoyed it, so I decided to give the book another chance. I’m so glad I did!! It was fantastic, even better than the movie except in one point. I loved the back and forth between Vianne and the priest. I loved the philosophy of the book: that common courtesy, kindness, honesty, and charity towards others is what makes a person good, rather than following strict religious dogma that often excludes and hurts others. While the specific dogma targeted in this book is Catholicism, I think the same thing can be applied to any organized religion (Christian or otherwise) that rules by intimidation, bullying, deceit, and humiliation. The book also brought up wonderful points on many other issues, including spousal abuse, euthanasia, discrimination against targeted groups, smother-mothering, and the need for movement/travel versus the need to settle in a permanent place. The only issue I took with the book is the end, which I won’t spoil, but it involves the choices Vianne makes regarding that whole travel vs settling issue and her relationships in general. I liked the movie ending better! But still, wonderful book, and a great way to end the Readathon!

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Readathon: By the Time You Read This, I’ll be Dead, by Julie Anne Peters

by the timeDaelyn is tired of being bullied and hurt, and has decided to commit suicide. In twenty-three days, she will make another attempt, and this time, she won’t fail again. In the meantime, she starts to say goodbye to everything around her, and tries her best not to let anyone – not the boy who keeps trying to engage her after school, not the other outcast girl at school – penetrate her walled exterior.

As usual for Julie Anne Peters, this book was amazing. It was so hard to read about all the things Daelyn has suffered through in her short life. I remember being impressed with Thirteen Reasons Why, which also discussed suicide, and now comparing the two books, this one is immensely better. I could feel all the characters so strongly, and I ached for them. My only problem was that I worried this would become one of those “a romance will save her” sorts of books and I didn’t want it to be. I didn’t mind if a friendship or personal connection with someone saved Daelyn, but I didn’t want her to suddenly be “all better” because she met a nice boy and fell in love. At first it seemed like it was going to take this path, but it didn’t. Some elements to it were there, but it ended in a far more realistic and acceptable way.

The book also made me think a lot about choice and free will, particularly with regards to death. We don’t really have free will when it comes to death, not when we’re young, not when we’re old. Should we? I’m not sure. But it certainly got me thinking. Especially when I picked up Chocolat right afterwards (which brings up voluntary euthanasia). Lately I haven’t really been interested in YA and there’s very little of it that I still have on my to-read list, but I imagine I will continue to read Julie Anne Peters’ books. They are all just so wonderful!

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Readathon: No Exit, by Jean-Paul Sartre

noexitIn this play, three people who have died and gone to Hell are placed together in a single room with no way out. They don’t know why they’ve been placed there, or why they’ve been put together. They slowly come to realize that they are each others’ torturers, or perhaps each others’ salvation.

I knew absolutely nothing about Sartre before I began, and had no idea what this play was about either. It only took me a few pages to figure out the first of the three dead spirits was being led into his room in Hell. Oh this was such a fantastic play!! The ideas in here were amazing, and the whole back and forth play between the three characters – building hope, crashing it down, trying to figure out the logic of Hell – was masterful. This is another play I would love to see live! I hope I get a chance to some day.

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Readathon: Chopin and George Sand in Majorca, by Bartolome Ferra

majorcaIn the 1830s, Chopin and George Sand spent a winter in Majorca for Sand’s son’s health. Neither liked it very much. This is one account of their time there.

When I originally got this book from a library book sale, I thought it was going to be letters back and forth between Chopin and Sand. I’m not sure exactly why, as they wouldn’t have been writing letters to each other if they went to Majorca together, but I was disappointed when I opened this up and found it was actually just someone’s very short account of the few months they stayed there. I’d rather have read Sand’s own memoir about the time, which she wrote two years after she stayed there. I’m not sure what the purpose of this particular book was. It was dry and short, and it didn’t give really much more information than you might find on Wikipedia. It was also badly put together, with misspellings and typographical errors all over the place. I didn’t really learn anything from it at all.

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Lady’s Maid, by Margaret Forster (audio)

ladys maidElizabeth Barrett Browning was attended to for many years by a maid named Elizabeth (Lily) Wilson. This is a (very) fictional narrative of Wilson’s life.

I originally wrote up a very long review for this book. I decided to delete that review and review it in brief instead because my feelings against it were so violent and I felt that my review was too rude and might offend someone. In short, I’d like to sum up my feelings on this book by saying I think it was an incredibly irresponsible piece of fiction based on real lives. See, 95% of this book was pure fiction based on the small bits of fact known about Wilson. The author chose to take those bits and then (mis)construe relationships, personalities, and circumstances to meet some sort of agenda, one which isn’t really clear because there are two abrupt changes in tone/message throughout the book.

For example, it’s known that real-life Wilson left her first son with her sister Ellen for many years, from his birth until a year after Elizabeth Barrett Browning’s death. We don’t know why, but the author chose to portray it as being because the Brownings were monsters and refused to let Wilson have the child, threatening to fire her if she didn’t leave him behind, and later, once she no longer worked for them, blocking any chance she had of getting him. It was completely ridiculous. I don’t expect the Brownings to be hailed as angels, but I’m sorry, I can’t believe they were the monsters they were made out to be time and time again in this book. The thing that really bothers me is that when I look at reviews of this book, people say this book convinced them to despise the Brownings and not want to read their poetry. That makes me extremely sad. I was really hoping this book would be more like Virginia Woolf’s Flush, which I adored, but I was, sadly, severely disappointed.

I should mention that the audio performance was actually pretty good. The book was read by Carole Boyd and she read all the various voices well (except children, but I really don’t like when adults try to mimic children’s voices anyway).

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Hope in Patience, by Beth Fehlbaum

Hope in Patience cover MEDFor years, Ashley was molested by her stepfather, but after she has the courage to tell someone what has happened to her, the worst happens: her mother and grandparents abandon her, claiming she is lying. She is placed with her biological father, who she has never known, and is now trying to find a way to survive and overcome her past.

This was an extremely powerful book, and not at all easy to read. The stuff that Ashley suffers through is brutal. Not just the molestation and rape from her stepfather, but what she suffers at the hands of everyone else because of her story: the things her mother accuses her of doing, the way she’s treated by teachers and classmates, what happens to her in court when she tries to stand up to her stepfather. It’s awful and it broke my heart.

This is such a sensitive topic and I think Fehlbaum handled it fairly well. She didn’t take the easy road out. People flat-out didn’t understand Ashley and what she’s been through. They prefer to think of her as a melodramatic or dishonest teenager rather than to believe all the stuff she’s been through. So often this happens to people who suffer from abuse. They are subjected to shaming, doubt, and bullying by others, and this book explores all those different avenues. Thankfully it also talks about all the people who react in a positive and helpful way to this situation, who try to help Ashley in every way they can.

Hope in Patience also didn’t take the easy way when it came to relationships and the way people interacted either. In so many YA novels where school conflicts are a major subject, by the end everyone comes to an understanding of each other. They may not like each other, but they see each other more clearly. Not so in this case. The fundamentalist Christians still hate Ashley’s lesbian friend K.C. and refuse to have anything to do with her. The patriotic and uber-conservative history teacher still intimidates his students by scare tactics and sometimes force. Ashley’s mom never comes around to Ashley’s side. All these things are so much more real than what I normally see in books, even if they are less hopeful as well, and I appreciated that.

My issue with this book was that some of the writing felt a little clunky, particularly when it came to modern cultural references. For example, there was one point where the author explained what Chuck E. Cheese was, and another place where she described the banana-orange knock-knock joke in great detail. It seemed odd to think either of those references needed explanation. I guess I just think of those things as fairly common American culture references. Maybe I’m wrong? Perhaps I’m just familiar with them being from Texas myself? Periodically I would be thrown off by a reference like that, or a few references to politics that seemed to too narrowly tie the time period down. But other than those little moments, the book was interesting and readable.

Note: The author had a meltdown about my quibbles in the comment section of my original review, despite what I thought was a kind review for a book I didn’t particularly enjoy. After her tantrum, I feel no need to continue to be nice, and I definitely won’t read more by her.

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